It was a beautiful, peaceful place. Not elegant, but not shabby, either. Decorated more with taste than money. What I loved was that nothing was extraneous. A living room with sofa, chairs, a bit of art; a plant. Dining room with table and buffet. Nothing special... but enchanting.
I want this, I thought.
I can do this, I thought.
I haven't done it yet, so it's time to start.
My place isn't a mess - not by my standards. But I have too much furniture, too many books (is that an oxymoron?), not enough empty places to put things. This can all be fixed.
Since I like to research projects - and it's a fine form of procrastination - I looked up the subject online. I attacked it from three angles:
- Moving out the clutter
- Making it simple and beautiful, yoga-like and calm
- Putting my life in order in other ways: saving money, making better use of my time
There are many blogs and websites on the subject, most of them useful. I kept coming across the same factors that make the sites a bad fit for me:
- Sites about how to declutter a large house, assuming the declutterer has a spouse, kids, a garage and a car. I have none of these things. I have a small one-bedroom apartment and three budgies.
- Sites which go too far: the people who live with 100 possessions only, which makes me wonder "is a pair of socks one object or two?" and "how do you deal with paper clips?" One package would be it. Though of course, if you have no need of paper, you have no need of paper clips. I have a way to go before I get there. I want to be minimalist, even Spartan; but not stark.
- Blogs which are defunct. The information on them is still good, but there's a static quality to them. I am looking for encouragement, inspiration, a sense of immediacy.
- Do It Yourself sites that give instructions on how to make all sorts of ingenious things, but which are based on the idea of "having more things with less" while I want to "have fewer things".
My goal: to have a clear and beautiful place by Christmas. "Beautiful" by my own standards. "Clear" in terms of "free of extraneous things" and "purposeful and elegant".
Can I do it? I plan to prove it.
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